FREE SAMPLE of How to Become a Youth Speaking Ninja

If you are looking to sharpen your communication skills with students, here is a FREE SAMPLE of the first chapter of How to Become a Youth Speaking Ninja.

Whether you are a newbie youth pastor or a seasoned-veteran communicator, this practical book of tips and tricks has plenty to offer.

Here's what others had to say:

"This book is spot on for anyone God has given a message to deliver... Not just those called to youth ministry." 

                     - Thomas Mitchell, President - Walk With God Ministries

"This book should be required reading for every youth pastor!" 

                     - Dewayne Moree, Founder - Youth Ministry Coaching Network

CLICK HERE to download the FREE SAMPLE.

Or, you can purchase the Kindle book from Amazon here.

10 Essentials: #6 - Ask Before You Apply

The 6th essential in getting hired as a youth pastor is to: Ask before you apply.

It is crucial that you take the time necessary to do your due diligence in discovering as much about the prospective church as possible. Don't be afraid to be selective.

For example, if you are a dyed-in-the-wool charismatic/pentecostal, don't apply for youth pastor jobs at churches that do not share your doctrine of the Holy Spirit. It does a huge dis-service (and is a big waste of time) for you to send a resume for an organization where you would not be a good fit (philosophically, doctrinally, or otherwise).

It's easy to fall in to the habit of applying for every student ministry job that appears on churchstaffing.com; however, it is worth it to be patient and wait for the right kind of opportunities to come around.

Here are a few different areas that might make you a bad "fit" for a specific youth ministry job:

Geographic Location
If you don't want to live in (or don't feel called to) Alaska, don't apply for youth pastor jobs in Alaska.

Job Description
If a particular church is looking for a youth pastor who is high in administrative gifting, don't apply if your ministry is typically characterized by last-minute decisions, and fly-by-the-seat-of-your-pants spontaneity.

Doctrine/Philosophy of Ministry
If you are missional in your ministry philosophy and the prospective church is attractional, you will be miserable. Don't apply.

Don't apply for any ministry positions in which you feel like you would need to "change the church" to be happy. As a new youth pastor, while you certainly want to add value and impact in the church, it's not your job to change it (or the Senior Pastor for that matter). If you wouldn't be happy now, you won't be happy later.

#5 Pray Away Your Pride

#4 Monitor Your Myspace

#3 Figure our Your Philosophy of Ministry

#2 - Determine Your Doctrine

#1 - Refresh Your Resume

10 Essentials to Getting Hired as a Youth Pastor

Listen in on January's Cohort Call

Had an amazing conference call last week with our communicator's COHORT on the topic of Refining Your Message.

CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO THE CALL.

Be sure to join us on Thursday, January 16, 2014 when Saddleback's High School Pastor, Josh Griffin, shares his communication wisdom in the upcoming Master Class.

CLICK HERE to register for the COHORT for FREE and don't miss out on the call next month with Josh Griffin on Thursday, February 13.

Speaking at a Retreat This Weekend?

This coming weekend, I will have the honor to speak to about one hundred students from Northern Colorado at their Winter Retreat. This retreat is unique because it represents students from 6 different churches and youth groups (in the same community) coming together to be challenged by the Word of God. What a great step toward unity between local churches and answering Jesus' prayer in John 17.

If you are not speaking at a Winter Retreat this season, I hope you have the privilege to do so in the near future. Never had this kind of opportunity before? Pray and ask God to open a door for you. Remember, it's never about you, but always about SERVING THE STUDENTS you are speaking to.

I would love to partner with you and serve your students by speaking at your upcoming event this year (if I am able and available).

To view a sample speaking video or for more information about booking, CLICK HERE...

FREE Illustration of the Month [Dating & Relationships Edition]

February is right around the corner.

This being the case, you may be planing a series on dating and relationships. Here is a list of the Top Christian Pick-Up Lines. This list can be used as an opener to a message or series on relationships. Great comedic timing is key to delivering this list in a humorous fashion. Be sure to run through it enough times during your message preparation to ensure that you have the delivery down. It is sure to get some good laughs from the students.

If you use powerpoint when you speak, you might try creating "someecards" (someecards.com) slides to add to the humor.

Enjoy!

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TOP CHRISTIAN PICK-UP LINES

1.  ”So last night I was reading in the book of Numbers, and then I realized, I don’t have yours.”

2.  ”Hey, I’m Will. God’s will.” (Tip: Your name should actually be Will)

3.  ”You put the “stud” in bible study.”

4. “Now I know why Solomon had 700 wives… He never met you!”

5.  ”I didn’t know angels flew this low.”

6. “I’m no Joseph, maybe you can help me interpreting the dreams I’ve been having about you?”

7. ”Is it hot in here or is that just the Holy Spirit burning inside of you?”

8. ”Is your name Faith? ‘Cause you’re the substance of things I’ve hoped for.”

9. ” How many times do I have to walk around you to make you fall for me?”

10. ” I didn’t believe in predestination until tonight.”

11.  ”Is this the transfiguration? because you are glowing.”

12. ” Your hair is like a flock of goats descending from Gilead.”

13. ” Excuse me, I believe one of your ribs belongs to me.”

14. ” Let me sell you an indulgence because it’s a sin to look as good as you do.”

15. ” Me. You. Song of Songs: the remix.”

16. ” Is it a sin that you stole my heart?”

17. ” Want to practice speaking in tongues with me?”

18. ” What’s your name and number so I can add you to my “prayer” list?”

19. “I just want you to know, I’m praying for you… No, I’m praying “FOR” you.”

20. “Here’s my number… Call me if you need prayer.”

21. “I’m usually not very prophetic, but I can see us together.”

3 Ways to Alter the Opening of Your Message

After coaching countless youth pastors to help them become better communicators, one thing stands out as a common miscue that occurs to newbie and veteran youth speakers alike, THE WEAK OPENING.

Nothing will turn students off faster to your message than a weak open. You have about 20 seconds for them to decide whether or not they will listen to the rest of your message. What a shame to create solid, Biblical content, and then lose the students after the first 7 sentences proceed out of your mouth.

Here are 3 ways you can alter the opening of your message the next time to step up in front of a group of students to speak:

1. Jump right into a story.

Don't begin with the typical introduction, "Hi my name is [blank], welcome tonight (or tonight we are going to talk about blah, blah, blah)..." Instead, open in the middle of a story, "I could smell the stench of the sewage burning in both of my nostrils... (or whatever story opening you can use to draw them into the story you are telling).

2. Begin with a statistic and use students in the room to demonstrate it.

As opposed to opening with, "I'd like to share some startling statistics with you...." Try implementing some student interaction right off of the bat with something like, "I need this half of the room to stand up on their seats... (or whatever your percentage)... those of you standing represent..." You get the picture.

3. Whisper your theme.

Really. Try it. Open your talk by whispering (or talking quietly and slowly) the theme of your message. Students will be forced to lean in and focus to hear what it is you are saying. Imagine the next time you get up in front of a group of students you said (in a hushed voice), "Those who diligently seek the Lord, WILL (pause) find Him... When they seek Him will all of their heart (or whatever your theme sentence is)."

If there is a need for you to introduce yourself (or the message, or whatever), do so AFTER you have completed your opening. Try it. You will find yourself starting on much stronger footing and presenting your message with much greater connection than ever before.

Resonate (by Nancy Duarte) available for FREE online

Communication guru, Nancy Duarte, has made her Resonate material available online FOR FREE!

CLICK HERE to view the full electronic version of Resonate on Nancy Duarte's website.

To view a Youth Pastor's book review I posted on Duarte's Resonate, CLICK HERE.

You can also download a free interactive version for i-devices from her website BY CLICKING HERE.