Thursday, January 23, 2014

The #1 Reason Students Stop Listening to You When You Speak



Not this again.

Week after week, you get up in front of your students to deliver a message from God's Word, and they tune you out.

You feel your frustration reaching a boiling point. Your head is about to explode.

"Don't they care about Jesus anymore?", you ask yourself.

Before you begin throwing accusations their way, take a few minutes to stop and evaluate your message content and delivery by asking this question:

Am I boring?

Chances are, the answer is YES!

Boredom is the #1 reason students stop listening to you when you are preaching. It may be that you have crafted your content in a boring manner or that your delivery is a snoozefest... or both. Either way, you need to take action immediately and remedy your propensity to be boring.

Here are 5 things you can implement immediately to combat boredom in your messages:

1. Simplify your content.

Too often, youth pastors put way too much content into their messages. There is nothing wrong with being thorough in your Bible study and preparation; however, you will have a major problem holding their attention if you do not cut your content down to 20-25 minutes.

2. Improve your storytelling.

You MUST include stories when you communicate with students. These can be personal stories, Bible stories, current event stories, or even stories about your cat. Be sure that when you TELL the story you are incorporating as many of the five senses as possible. Engage your students by helping them feel like they are smack-dab in the middle of an amazing story.

3. Analyze how you handle Scripture.

Try reading the scripture passages in bite-sized chunks. If you happen to have an unusually long passage to read, break it up. Have the students act it out. Try telling the Bible story from a character's perspective. For example, I recently heard a youth speaker tell the story of Jesus turning water to wine as if he was one of the disciples witnessing the event. The students were on the edge of their seats! One final thought, you don't have to include every verse you studied in preparing for the message, just the main ones that are pertinent to make the point.

4. Use your voice.

Be sure to use vocal inflection when you speak to students. Don't just vary the volume of your voice with loud and soft, try using a fast and slow rate of speech. Put in a few character voices during your stories. Insert a few well-timed pauses. Whatever you do, don't be monotone!

5. Move your body.

The two most damaging things you can do with your body when you speak are:
a) Be a statue (lack of movement is boring).
b) Constantly pace back and forth (most youth pastors who use only an outline do this and it's very distracting and leads to boredom).
When you move as you deliver your message, MOVE WITH PURPOSE!




Wednesday, January 22, 2014

FREE SAMPLE of How to Become a Youth Speaking Ninja


If you are looking to sharpen your communication skills with students, here is a FREE SAMPLE of the first chapter of How to Become a Youth Speaking Ninja.

Whether you are a newbie youth pastor or a seasoned-veteran communicator, this practical book of tips and tricks has plenty to offer.

Here's what others had to say:

"This book is spot on for anyone God has given a message to deliver... Not just those called to youth ministry.
                     - Thomas Mitchell, President - Walk With God Ministries

"This book should be required reading for every youth pastor!
                     - Dewayne Moree, Founder - Youth Ministry Coaching Network

CLICK HERE to download the FREE SAMPLE.

Or, you can purchase the Kindle book from Amazon here.

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

10 Essentials: #6 - Ask Before You Apply



The 6th essential in getting hired as a youth pastor is to: Ask before you apply.

It is crucial that you take the time necessary to do your due diligence in discovering as much about the prospective church as possible. Don't be afraid to be selective.

For example, if you are a dyed-in-the-wool charismatic/pentecostal, don't apply for youth pastor jobs at churches that do not share your doctrine of the Holy Spirit. It does a huge dis-service (and is a big waste of time) for you to send a resume for an organization where you would not be a good fit (philosophically, doctrinally, or otherwise).

It's easy to fall in to the habit of applying for every student ministry job that appears on churchstaffing.com; however, it is worth it to be patient and wait for the right kind of opportunities to come around.

Here are a few different areas that might make you a bad "fit" for a specific youth ministry job:

Geographic Location
If you don't want to live in (or don't feel called to) Alaska, don't apply for youth pastor jobs in Alaska.

Job Description
If a particular church is looking for a youth pastor who is high in administrative gifting, don't apply if your ministry is typically characterized by last-minute decisions, and fly-by-the-seat-of-your-pants spontaneity.

Doctrine/Philosophy of Ministry
If you are missional in your ministry philosophy and the prospective church is attractional, you will be miserable. Don't apply.

Don't apply for any ministry positions in which you feel like you would need to "change the church" to be happy. As a new youth pastor, while you certainly want to add value and impact in the church, it's not your job to change it (or the Senior Pastor for that matter). If you wouldn't be happy now, you won't be happy later.



Monday, January 20, 2014

Listen in on January's Cohort Call

Had an amazing conference call last week with our communicator's COHORT on the topic of Refining Your Message.

CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO THE CALL.

Be sure to join us on Thursday, January 16, 2014 when Saddleback's High School Pastor, Josh Griffin, shares his communication wisdom in the upcoming Master Class.

CLICK HERE to register for the COHORT for FREE and don't miss out on the call next month with Josh Griffin on Thursday, February 13.